aaaaahhhhhhh....as lesson learnt i do not dare
to ask ppl of middle-aged or older...
are they married? have kids? or how r e doings of their spouse?
so finally e lady that took e same point to point bus stop as me
mention to me that...
it's school holidays now, so she brought her 2 kids out yester...
e: "awww...yar, someore yester was father's day!"
m: "where did u went yester?"
e: "er...we went for crab feast!"
m: "whole family ar?"
*nods
........................
e: "actually im quite afraid of asking ppl whether r they married? have kids? or how r e doings of their spouse?"
"cos there's one time that my trainer was mentioning bout his 2 sons...and i asked bout his wife naturally"
"but he told me...er.....wife i got no wife now....."
"so it was darn embarrassed!"
m: "Oo...yar, but now is a more modern world"
"ppl won look at u in one kind if u r still not married? divorced or wat..."
"like me im a single-parents now"
*e: O.O
m: "but it's okay, if two ppl cant stay together anymore...
there's no point forcing..."
>.< *fainted...luckily e bus was here, then...
*went up to our usual seats.................
gosh! i won have know wat's e best reactions for handling this kinda situation...again!
i tot i've been really careful? =/
